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Long time no activity. Is everything all right. Yes it is. Today was a boring day, didn't wanted to work. If I recall through the monthly expense tracker we went over board. Adi broke mili's lumia screen, papa had to call prince then went to malleshwaram to get it fixed on last Friday. It still has some issue. The I got samsung duos for papa. He will have a tough time with the phone but once accustomed he will have fun. I made butter chicken last Sunday, it's becoming my signature recipe. It was wonderfully. Etu feasted on it like anything. Any way he never leaves chicken alone leg it be in any form. We were planning to chikamaglur for the weekend but it's too far away and papa and mummy will not be able to manage it. Ritesh is planning for his honeymoon. He is going to manali, and made his reservation. Mili has a problem every time she hears about honeymoon because she missed it. Well the situation was not proper during our marriage. Already a new comer to Ocwen, in pr...

Had the first mom with Prashanth. Usual expression, don't know what that guy wants. I think people as they grow up, there is a tendency to confuse things up or say things which cannot be expressed in numbers. For me if anything if cannot be expressed in numbers then it has little value. Every sentence unless quantifiable it does not means anything. The process, motivation holy shit. Just tell them clearly what needs to be done and don't back off, is all what is needed to get things moving. Observe there personal space, dont load them with tons of shit work etc. In the name of process and big management words many people are saving there work and confusing many. I know getting things in an orderly manner will help but there are better ways of expressing the same. Not just digging out a page from some book and spilling it over and let oth figure out what does that mean. It's shit. I have planned in a different way. Let me go through some document the I will put this in front ...

Etu celebrated his birthday again at innovative film city. Why he loves that place is because of pool, he loves water and can stay there for hours. His nanji also stepped into water. Adi also had some great time. The time when we entered film city, he started his tantrum. He doesn't wants anything other than pool. We took him to toddler den,wher he played with small balls. He crawled. Jumped and did whatever he can. He started into the mood. Adi also joined him. The we played some drums and it was a good fun. Adi is a bit more daring than Etu. He went for horse riding with ritesh. Seeing him Etu also went with me. It's not comfortable that's what I think. It's bumpy and you always feel like thrown away. Dino park was as usual and Etu was more interested in getting out than staying in. I offered him to take pics on his own. I handed him the camera. He felt more responsible and now had a weapon to feel comfortable. He clicked at random and that clicked for some time. Fina...

Poor child is grieving in pain for last 5 days. First permanent molar brings so pain and discomfort I realized now. I don't remember mine but it's really painfull. The problem has compounded because of tonsillitis. I could have given him cold food like ice cream to relieve him from pain but tonsillitis prevents me from doing it. The gums have swollen. He is on antibiotic for last 3 days. Improvements are felt but not enough to bring him to the dining table. Because of the swollen gums he is unable to chew food and he is not mature enough to just use his first set of teeth.  Yesterday we went to get his nanji and nani from railway station. I gave him a appy tetra and he managed to gulp some inside. But that's all he has eaten till now. Actually due to navratra we are not giving him non veg. But I feel pity. I felt crying sat night when he said the food is tasty but he can't eat. Early Sunday morning, he was crying because of hunger, I gave him some milk solids. It's ...

Once Adi is over with his viral now it's Etu turn. He is having teeth pain particularly the gums, sore throat and little high temperature. Etu and me slept over the cot on floor. The cot was not good, it has bumps and I didn't sleep well. Need to change the cot. He wake up at 4 and poor chap was not keeping well. The occasional pain in throat makes it difficult to breath as well. I gave him ibugesic and he was sleeping till 11:45. At least he had a good sleep and hopefully he will come back strong. He is eagerly waiting for his nana and nani, obviously for toys. He has already prepared his shopping list which included megatron, hot wheels and few other kids machine. They are coming by 6th. Yesterday was cool in office, the Citrix issue was resolved and looking for a big list this weekend but they are small ticket items. Adiv recovered and still his gums are swollen but he is sleeping well. The summer is creating problem.

Adiv is having a very tough time. His viral fever subsided but teeth problem continues to be a big issue. He is unable to sleep properly so mili and myself are also unable to sleep. He wakes up frequently at night and I don't know why my sleep also has become very disruptive. On a slight sound I get up. We started the homeopathic medicine teething trouble combination 21. I am hoping very badly that he gets some relief, which will give some rest to me as well. I was trying for work from home but I don't think I am too comfortable with Prashanth on this. Mathai has been very helpful. Finally booked the ticket on 31st May for Ritesh marriage. He is also coming along. Fortunately we got the confirmed seats. I am in a very bad shape today. Didn't had a good sleep for last 4 to 5 days. Mili is in much bad condition than me. Poor girl, parenting takes a toll.